Do You Really Want to Be in a Relationship?

By: Kennita Leon
Estimated Completion Time
3 min
Do You Really Want to Be in a Relationship?
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About This Quiz

Sometimes we're in relationships for all the wrong reasons. Maybe it's because we don't want to be lonely or because all our friends are doing it. Or maybe it's because you and your partner look great together or that you've been together forever. Whatever the reason is, something has led you here, so we think it's time that you find out if you really want to be in a relationship, or not. 

Often times, it's not until something goes wrong that we begin to see the cracks in our romances and the self-examination begins. Then, you start to question what it is that's keeping you in that relationship and if it really is worth saving. If you don't want to go that deep or you don't know where to begin, this quiz is perfect for you. It takes into consideration the good, the bad and the ugly and will let you know where your head is at right now ... or where it should be if you have love blinders on.  

Are you secretly dreaming of being single, or are you as happy as a clam in your relationship? Doing this quiz is the easiest and most fun way to find out. So let's see if you'll still have a partner by the end, or if you'll be single, but not so ready to mingle. 

What's your relationship status at the moment?
Married
In a relationship
It's complicated.
Single
How many relationships would you say you've had?
Less than three
Between three and six
Between seven and 10
Too many
And how many of them have failed miserably?
None of them
Very few of them
Some of them
Most of them

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Do you ever feel tied down when you're in a relationship?
Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Too many times
What's the worst thing about being with someone?
The arguments
You can't flirt with anyone else.
Relationships with friends may suffer.
Having to answer to somebody
But what makes it all worth it?
The happy times
The affection
Not being lonely
The physical part

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Is your partner cheating ever an issue in your relationship?
Yes, all the time
Often, yes
I don't worry about these things.
No, it's not.
But have you ever cheated?
Never
I was tempted to.
I didn't go all the way.
Yes, I have.
How soon after making it official would you move in together?
A month
Six months
A year
More than a year

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What's the one activity you think you and your boo could do together?
Cooking
Watching TV
Going to the gym
Partying
When's the best time for love?
Winter
Summer
Spring
Fall
Is PDA something that you're into?
Lay it on me!
Yes, it is.
A tiny bit
No, gross

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Do you ever want a break from your partner?
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
All the time
What's your biggest fear in a relationship?
Being betrayed
Becoming too vulnerable
Losing focus
Losing myself
Do the pros of being with someone really outweigh the cons?
A million times over
I think it does.
It's about equal.
They don't.

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If you needed to clear your head, where would you go?
The park
At a friend's
To my parent's house
A bar
Are you in a relationship or have you ever been in one just for the gifts/money you got out of it?
Never
I thought about it but didn't.
Once or twice
Many times
Are you sometimes blinded by the physical aspect of your relationships?
Never
Very rarely
A lot of the time
All the time

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Do your friends agree with a lot of your relationships?
They like to full my head with doubts.
They ask all the right questions.
They let me make my own mistakes.
They're very supportive.
And does your family support you?
All the time
Most times
Sometimes
Rarely
Tell us a bit about yourself. What word best describes you?
Kind
Cunning
Intelligent
Wild

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What quality do you look for in a partner?
Trustworthiness
Compassion
Optimism
Respect
What's your idea of a fun night?
Watching a movie and cuddling
Going to a comedy show
Dancing the night away at a club
Getting drinks at a cool bar
Where's your favorite place to go for date night?
Picnic
Museum
Bowling alley
A wine bar

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How do you react if you and your partner get into an argument?
I apologize, even if I'm wrong.
I try to compromise.
I get upset and start to shout.
I walk away and ignore them for days afterwards.
How quickly do you get over relationships?
It takes years.
Quite a few months
Weeks
Days
On average, how long do your relationships last?
Years
About a year
Months
Weeks

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And why do they end?
Cheating
We grow apart.
We're incompatible.
I get bored.
Do you want to get married eventually?
I already am.
Yes, someday
I'm not sure.
Not at all
And lastly, do you believe in true love?
With all my heart
Yes, I do.
I'm hopeful, but also a bit skeptical.
No, I don't.

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